Minutes with a Marvel Featuring Kali Davis: Practice Random Acts of Kindness
My “Minutes with a Marvel” series intended to briefly highlight an outstanding gal and share her quick responses to meaningful questions that might inspire you or at least get you thinking.
My very first “Minutes with a Marvel” spotlight, Kali Davis, a footwear product line manager at Nike, went above and beyond her call to "quickly text back with answers" and emailed me such thoughtful responses that I just had to share the whole thing here.
Kali is always lifting others up.
Talented beyond measure, the thing that makes Kali so remarkable is the way she makes others feel. If you’ve ever been around one of those people who lights up a room, well, Kali is like that but magnified.
Kali is imaginative, motivating, and always does the little things, whether as a co-worker or a friend. From creating office fitness challenges with incentives and prizes, to sending “just because I’m thinking of you” snail mail, the small things are never lost on Kali.
Despite working full-time and being a mom, she always makes time for friends. So the next time you want to say, “I’m just too busy for . . . X,” I hope the spirit of Kali encourages you to send one more positive email, pick up the phone for a chat, or compliment one more stranger—you never know whose day you’ll make.
1) Where do you get your energy/what motivates you?
“What I know about myself is that I get energy from the big things but also the really small things, no less significant to me, that can sometimes get overlooked.
“FAMILY: Being with my daughter, husband, and family is the number one thing that energizes me and fills me up. There is nothing that makes me feel more like myself than making my daughter laugh, showing her something new, watching her learn, or just feeling the weight of her little body on mine when we snuggle before bed. It’s SO centering, makes me feel purpose, and excited for the future. Ironic that the little person who energizes me the most also makes me feel the MOST exhausted!
“EXERCISE: I LOVE exercising and it is an absolute imperative in my feelings of balance, physical/mental/emotional health, energy level and overall well-being. It’s a time when other things can fall out of my mind and I can be really present. I love that feeling of pushing myself to the limit and always challenging what you think you are capable of. A hard workout always makes me feel refreshed, like I have washed the slate clean and start again. Bonus: working out with my besties—it’s the ultimate in filling my cup!
“CONNECTING WITH MY FRIENDS: Whether it’s going on a trip or adventure, having a fun dinner or drinks out, working out together, meeting for coffee, or just talking on the phone or texting, my best girlfriends are a huge source of energy and positivity in my life. I am inspired constantly by the amazing things my friends are accomplishing in all realms of their lives. I am lifted up by them but also grounded by them and am infinitely thankful for those who I can 100 percent be myself with. It’s really special.
“I think ‘connecting’ versus spending time with friends is a better description. With all the other responsibilities we have at this stage in life from being a mom/wife/daughter and sister, it isn’t always possible to spend as much time together as I would like. But I cannot undervalue how chats on the phone, texts, [and] sharing photos is still such a source of energy for me.
“WHEN I AM HELPING SOMEONE ELSE: Oftentimes, for me, this means being a source of support and listening to my friends and family. When I can help provide advice or guidance, or make someone important to me feel heard or understood—that’s an amazing feeling. I also feel this same sentiment translated into my work. Being a good listener and thought-partner in solving complicated problems makes me feel proud and accomplished.
“WORK ACCOMPLISHMENTS: I work really hard in my job and always hold myself to a high standard. Realizing accomplishments both big and small in the workplace helps me feel validated in my work and keeps me engaged and positive. Finding energy in this is crucial, even more so since becoming a mom, because I know that time I am at my job is time I am not spending with Ellery. I need those little wins.
“BEING IN NATURE.”
2) Who (other women) inspires you? Or are there any specific social media feeds that inspire you?
“All my girlfriends inspire me DAILY for a million different reasons. I am inspired by their abilities to balance all the crazy demands of this life and still create space to be amazing forces in my life. I have friends who are stay-at-home moms who inspire me by their selflessness, patience, and commitment to their family. I have friends who have recently gone back to finish getting their college degree and get accepted into nursing school, all while balancing a newborn baby at home. I have friends that work full-time and still make being a mom the number one priority. I have friends who are incredible career women and show me what it means to lead with confidence, humility, respect, smarts, and SPUNK. I cannot pick among these women, but their reach is likely much larger than they know.
“I would scream it from the rooftops and could care less about the clichés, but my mom is my number one inspiration. To know her is to be better . . . it just is. I can think of no better word than ‘BADASS’ to describe my mom.
“When my dad was diagnosed with terminal cancer seven years ago, she showed a side of herself and a side of strength that I did not know was possible. She devoted 100 percent of herself, her being, and her purpose to my dad, my brother, and myself. I have never been more proud of and inspired by her. Now, she is working through her next chapter. There is nothing she can’t do, or at least that she doesn’t try to do herself first. She called me the other day just to tell me that she got my dad’s twenty-two-foot fishing boat out of the water, onto the boat trailer, and driven back home all by herself.
“My friend and mentor, Kathy Gomez. I have known Kathy for ten years, and she has been a bright spot in my life from that point on. I truly believe meeting her has changed the trajectory of my life. She is an incredibly smart, funny, inspiring, influencing, encouraging, and creative leader at a large company, but she is also an amazing mom to three amazing girls. Kathy spreads joy, positivity, and energy. If you ask her how she is doing, ninety-nine times out of one hundred she says, ‘Great!’ She has been a pivotal person in my success as both a career woman and mom.”
3) Pie-in-the-sky dream or ambition?
“My pie-in-the-sky dream is to find a way to blend my love of working and being challenged with my desire to have more time with my daughter and family. My fall-back plan? Open a gym with an adjacent coffee shop with EXCELLENT baked goods, so I can share my immense love for these three things with the rest of the world.”
4) Go-to recipe?
“Burrito bowls. Just a hodgepodge of leftover veggies in the fridge . . . but I always make cilantro-lime rice.”
